Dante’s Opinion: Are people being rude to hog up the sidewalk?

The question for today is a little odd.

I was going for a walk and a couple people who were walking kept walking so slow in front of me and there was no room for me to walk around. I tried to walk around them but they kept taking up the whole entire sidewalk with walking in the middle. I even said: “Excuse me, could I please get through?” Then the person just looked at me funny and acted like I was crazy for asking. The guy who was with her said: “You need to learn to wait. She is walking as fast as she can!” Then I argued: “That’s not the point. The point is you guys are hogging up the entire sidewalk when you have room on the other side to stay to the right when people are trying to pass!” Were they rude or was I being rude?

My first instinct is to simply move around them if there’s a problem. Go in the street or grass area. I mean, that’s what I would do. But, I’ll play along with your question.

This is really interesting because I never heard of this happening. Like I said, you would walk around via outside of the sidewalk. But, I like what you said when asking to get through. Problem is, I wonder about the tone of voice. If you sounded harsh, you may have escalated the situation. So then, you were being rude.

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Is it Wrong to Ask God for Proof of Himself, Other Than the Bible?

Here’s an interesting question:

Is it wrong to ask God for proof of himself, other than the bible?

No, it is not. That’s the beauty of it all. In fact, people in the Bible asked God to prove Himself. My favorite story is Gideon. I’ll just paste the passage here:

 So Gideon said to God, “If You will save Israel by my hand as You have said—look, I shall put a fleece of wool on the threshing floor; if there is dew on the fleece only, and it is dry on all the ground, then I shall know that You will save Israel by my hand, as You have said.” And it was so. When he rose early the next morning and squeezed the fleece together, he wrung the dew out of the fleece, a bowlful of water. Then Gideon said to God, “Do not be angry with me, but let me speak just once more: Let me test, I pray, just once more with the fleece; let it now be dry only on the fleece, but on all the ground let there be dew.” And God did so that night. It was dry on the fleece only, but there was dew on all the ground.

That passage was from Judges 6:36-40. This isn’t the only time Gideon asked God to prove Himself. But, this is my favorite. He asked God to basically go against the laws of nature…twice. Absolutely fantastic.

Don’t be afraid to ask of God in this way. Approach with respect and adoration. You are not challenging Him. If anything, you are seeking confirmation. Yet, God wants us to rely on faith. So, His response will be one of two things. Either he’ll accept the test, or ask you to jump anyway. But, I think it’s no problem to ask. Ya never know how God will reveal Himself.

Dante’s Opinion: Do You Think Truth is Worth the Pain?

Here’s the simple question:

Do you think truth is worth the pain?

Truth can hurt. I mean, not always but yeah, it can hurt. The thing about it is, why?

Truth can hurt because if the truth is not what you want to hear…

It’s actually a flawed mental state to avoid the truth because it hurts. You have the illness. That’s the truth. You’re gonna be in pain with that truth but, without it, you’re in pain anyway.

Alright so then what about this: In the event the truth can hurt, to me, a lie hurts even more. There is more damage in a lie. Sooo, this is another reason why truth is worth the pain.

Truth is worth the pain.